A free lap dance for your birthday? And from David Arquette? Where do we sign up? Arquette, the host-with-the-most at his Bootsy Bellows nightclub on the Strip, treated gay celeb Adam Lambert to a lap dance at the club Friday night (Jan. 25) according to the Advocate. Lambert, who turns 31 tomorrow, is using his birthday as an occasion to raise money for We Are Family, an organization that promotes diversity. He’s encouraging fans to donate $31 and enter a contest for a chance to win a 10-second telephone greeting by Lambert himself.